Have I given you the idea that being in your feminine energy means sitting around doing nothing and watching the world go by?  Oh my goodness!  I am so happy you brought this to my attention!   

When men energetically aren’t allowed to be men and when women vibrationally aren’t claiming their right to be women, when we get it all confused and tangled up, we ALL chance living unhappy and unfulfilled lives.

It doesn’t matter if you have been married for years or on a first date…  

YOU ARE THE PRIZE! Not him. 

What if I told you that another person cannot ever complete you or make you whole and happy?

What if I told you most everything you have been taught about, “Happy Ever After” won’t get you there?

What secrets do Wonder Woman, Sirens, Greek and Roman Goddesses, Whisperers like myself and Divas have in common?

What secrets do we know about effortlessly attracting amazing men and relationships instead of working hard chasing them, or having to have a “Plan of Attack?”

Would you like to know?

In part I of this series entitled, “Dating as Therapy," I shared about my experiences with turning dating from a freakish experience to an interesting, surprising, healing and fun journey and gave you successful tips on how you can too.

Dating can be an exciting and eye-opening experience that heals you deeply, makes you stronger and better and allows your vibe to change so that you attract the kind of men you want…and lots of them!

I am sure that by now, you have heard from me that the path to a mans love and commitment is not centered around being a sex kitten, an intellectual sparring partner, spiritual ally or a sports buddy.  There has been much written about sexual chemistry, having similar social and religious values and common interests as being important in a marriage and I agree, but that is not what I am talking about. 

Dating again?  Have your therapist on speed dial? 

Wait before you hit auto-dial.  I have news for you.  You can date your way to mental and emotional healing.

I often see women come to a point in their relationship with a husband or partner.  This point is miscommunication. Your ways of communicating aren't working anymore! It can’t feel good.  And, it isn’t your fault.  News Flash, it isn’t his either.  If you want to insist that it is his fault, don’t read any further.  You won’t like what I have to say.  

"As long as you see dating as a chore you are going to hate it." 

That was something I read from another relationship coach I'm friends with. 

I was struck by the statement. Dating is just like anything else! If you hate it, it hates you back and it shows in your past, present and future. 

How to go from forgotten wife to adored Whisperer.

This is an exciting time for Whisperers. I am dedicating the next 2 weeks to helping you from the inside out AND also from the outside in to get and keep the love you want and deserve ✨

Wondering if he's the one?

Wondering if he's your soulmate, kindred spirit or twin flame?

Wondering what those things even are? 

Let's get started...✨

Valentine’s Day is in the history books for 2018. Some of us had a great day, but most of us have been filled with anxiety and angst about it since February 1 and February 15th wasn’t much better.  If you are one of those thousands of women who had a crappy Valentine’s Day or have trouble getting what you want and need from your man on any holiday or special occasion, stay tuned. 

Just like a horse, you can not make a man do something he does not want to do.  Well, maybe you think you can, but even if you get away with it once or twice, you are not doing yourself or your relationship any favors by trying to get your needs met in this fashion. 

It's February. When you think of February, I'll bet it isn't groundhog day that you think of. It's not President's Day either...it's Valentines day. 

UGH! 

Self-Love...what is it? Why is EVERYONE talking about it? 

Does it mean taking a bubble bath and doing a face mask? Maybe a manicure? 

No! Self-love isn't what you see in the magazines. Self-love is real, deep trust and love for yourself. 

Is your relationship in trouble? 

Are you in a committed relationship that just won't go anywhere, no matter how hard you try? 

Is your marriage beginning to feel distant and dry? 

Let's fix it. 

You sense he’s backing away from you….he is not talking. He seems cold and distant.

You spy him looking at other women or he comments about the new beauty in yoga class. Maybe he doesn't call as often, or starts hesitating about making plans.

Maybe he isn't as affectionate, or he doesn't want to rip your clothes off all the time. Or maybe he's just acting a little "off" and you can't put your finger on why.

I was too busy trying to be perfect. I spent my time imagining and figuring out what it was he wanted me to be and then, I would become it. 

I was  trying to prove my worthiness, my perfectness, my "perfect girlfriend or wife-ness", and I did not even know it! I did what what I thought mattered.

I was wrong.  But it wasn't my fault, and it's not yours either. 

Recently, I got a letter from a reader. This reader is struggling with what MANY women are struggling with—getting their man to fully commit!

And boy, do I feel her pain. 

My response includes advice for moving away from the dreaded "Girlfriend Trap," as well as what NOT to do in these situations.