Awaken Your Love Whispering Genius!
If you’ve been feeling like you’re attracting a man who doesn’t make you feel all that great inside but who lights your fire anyway...we need to unlock your “Love Whispering Genius!”
What is it exactly that makes us attract (and be attracted to) a “toxic man”?
And what exactly does this toxic man look like?
It took many failed relationships for me to finally find that inner motivation to unlock my inner genius, my inner Love Whisperer. I know what it takes to find, welcome, and set loose your inner genius. You can "Love Whisper" yourself to a safe, thrilling, juicy and happy place in a great relationship.
The first thing I did that turned everything around for me was STOP trying to “fix” myself! Because, for me, and perhaps for you, too, “fixing” myself meant instantly berating myself for what I must have done wrong. Not only for what I did and said, but for things I couldn't even control—such as being attracted toxic men and toxic relationships (if you could even call them relationships).
I found myself apologizing to myself over and over, hitting myself over the head over and over again, banging that same head on walls over and over again—and just generally hating whatever “vibe” I thought I’d created.
I felt like a "Toxic Magnet."
And you don’t have to go through that process—it’s painful, and it takes SO much time and energy!
Instead, try the exercise below to begin.
Skinny Dipping
Sit or stand in a comfortable position and and close your eyes. Breathe in through the nose and out through the mouth. As you breath let that breath take on your favorite color. I like deep indigo blue for this exercise.
Watch that colorful breath go in through your nose and down the back of your throat and deep inside you to a calm cool pool that resides there. Breath in the calm coolness that is you. Now Dive deep into that pool. Sit on the bottom and feel the soft calmness that has enveloped you. Feel the indigo blue stillness fill every pore of your body. Notice the difference between the way it feels to be you on the surface and the way it feels to be you once you are deep in that pool within. Congratulations! You have just tapped into your Feminine Energy!
*Notice that as a woman, we are exactly like Mother Earth, the most Divine of ALL Feminine Energies. On the surface there is upset and war and tornados and chaos…..but deep inside, far beyond the earth's crust, everything is calm and balanced. Notice how powerful you feel. This is the “Real You”, and you didn’t have to “fix” a thing!
Toxic men can make us feel unsteady or out of balance. Use this tool to use when you are feeling unsteady or out of balance.